Someone started a thread on a forum asking, [Do men become stingy with their wives after marriage?]
The replies were full of women complaining about how cheap and calculating their husbands were.
My husband, however, went in the opposite direction.
After we got married, he handed me his payroll card to manage and kept only a few dozen dollars a month for his own expenses, as though he had truly given everything to me and to this family.
I shook my head and was about to respond when my mother-in-law's call interrupted me.
"Chloe, Josh's god sister is sick. She needs $4,500."
My husband immediately slipped an arm around my shoulders and assured me,
"Don't worry. We'll use my salary. You won't have to pay a cent."
"Alright," I said.
Seeing how certain he was, I transferred one dollar to him on the spot and added a note: Medical expenses transferred.
When my mother-in-law saw the transfer, she flew into a rage, sharply accusing me of being jealous and petty, even withholding money meant to save a life.
I remained unmoved.
"That's all there is on the card."
She completely lost her temper, threatening to come over and audit how many kickbacks I had supposedly pocketed over the years.
I agreed to settle the accounts.
That was when my husband suddenly lost his enthusiasm.
The sun had barely risen when the clamor outside my door yanked me from sleep.
I barely had a foot out of the bedroom when my mother-in-law, Zara, stormed up with a young woman in tow. My husband, Josh Lawson, and father-in-law, Paul Lawson, trailed behind her.
They stood there, looking like a jury ready to pass judgment, and I could not help but arch an eyebrow.
"What's the big idea?"
Zara glowered at me, thrusting a cancer diagnosis report in my face.
"Josh told you about Jasmine's illness yesterday. She needs the cash for surgery, and she needs it now. So, where is it?"
I took a quick look at the young woman, her head hung low, the picture of vulnerability, and my brow furrowed.
Josh did talk to me about the medical bills. He wanted me to transfer 7,500 dollars from his salary for his god sister, Jasmine Carter's treatment. I had control over his bank account, and I had shown him the balance.
However, there they were, practically on a witch hunt.
I whipped out my phone and sent Josh a single dollar. "There, I've transferred the wages you're so desperate for."
Zara peered at the screen and blew up, her voice piercing.
"Is this some kind of joke? One dollar? You think you're dealing with a street beggar?
"Have you been funneling my son's money to your brother for his house?"
I shrugged, helpless.
"If you won't believe me, what can I do? That's all that's left in the account. Where do you expect me to get the money?"
Paul let out an icy laugh and produced a pay stub from his pocket.
"For years, my son has been handing his earnings over to you. His salary's in the thousands, and you give him peanuts for an allowance. He can't even afford a drink or a smoke. What kind of man lives like that?
"You're just green with envy! We never asked you to take care of us in our old age, but chipping in a bit to help Jasmine get better is too much for you?!"
Zara's voice was thick with pain as she slapped her thigh, her wrinkled face twisted in anguish. "Looks like you and your mom are two peas in a pod. She was eyeing our savings before you even married into the family. And now, you're after the money my son has slaved away for!"
They had me cornered, and I could not move.
Jasmine stayed silent, her eyes brimming with tears, giving me a look like I was the one who had hurt her. Josh saw the tension and stepped in front of me, canceling the bank transfer. "Dad, Mom, Chloe's family, too. Watch what you say!"
He whispered to me, his voice a soothing murmur, "Honey, they're just worried, that's all. Jasmine's my only sister. I can't just stand by and watch her suffer, right?
"Don't worry, my salary for the next five or six months should cover it. You'll still handle the rest, okay?"
Zara and Paul were fuming, accusing Josh of being blind to my true colors and still taking my side. "Why are you even talking to her? She obviously doesn't care about Jasmine's health! Get your bank access from her now!"
However, Josh's gaze did not waver from mine. His earnest look made my heart skip a beat.
When we first got married, everyone said I had snagged a catch. He always had my back, especially against Zara. Then, he gave me control over his paychecks, keeping just enough to get by each month.
I wanted to split it with him, but he would not hear of it. "I'm not into playing games like some guys. I just want a simple life with you. What's mine is yours.
"If I can't make my wife confidently pay for her purchases without a second thought, then I've really dropped the ball."
At that moment, I faced Josh, who was waiting for my reply. I calmly shrugged his hand from my shoulder.
"That's the whole story. Even if I did transfer it to you, you wouldn't be satisfied.
"I've got to rush to work. Let's pick this up later."
I push through them, heading for the bathroom to freshen up.
Zara, persistent as ever, tugged at my sleeve, refusing to let me slip away. "Spell it out for me! You're clutching the cash! If you didn't lie to me, then where did all my son’s money go?"
I gave a nonchalant shrug, eyeing her with bewilderment. "I haven't touched a single dime in the account. How would I know?"
I wrestled my sleeve from her grip and hurried into the bathroom.
No sooner had I squeezed out the toothpaste than Zara started hammering on the door. The pounding was so loud I could feel my temples pulsing.
I swung open the door to find Zara triumphantly holding a box of my jewelry.
"And you claim you didn't blow Josh's cash! Take a look at these! Isn't each piece worth a fortune?"
Paul backed her up, saying, "Without Josh's help, could your paycheck ever cover such luxurious jewelry?
"Josh's sister is your sister, too. Why not hawk a few pieces and help Jasmine out?"
I glanced at the necklace, once pristine, now a tangle of fragments in their hands. Annoyance flared within me, and I snatched my belongings back.
"Who said you could rummage through my stuff?! My mom got these for me. I have no reason to sell them!"
Zara's reaction was visceral. She clutched my arm, dragging me toward the bedroom. "You've got some nerve! Your bedroom's overflowing with your handbags and dresses!
"Why doesn't Josh have a single decent outfit if you haven't blown through all his cash?!"
How was it that a wardrobe shared equally between us suddenly meant he was the one being shortchanged?
I stood my ground, giving her an icy stare.
"I bought that with my own money, and I'll say it once again: I haven't touched a dime of his paycheck!"
Josh let out a weary sigh, stepping in once again to smooth things over. "Chloe hasn't treated me like that. Don't make things hard for her."
He seemed genuinely concerned for me, proposing a compromise.
"Babe, if we can't scrape together 7,500 dollars, let's go with 4,500. I'll ask some friends to chip in for the rest.
"We'll face this challenge together, and I'll figure out a way to cover the future medical bills."
Jasmine, hearing that, dabbed at her eyes, looking forlorn. "Josh, if Chloe isn't on board, let's not force it, okay? Let's not spoil our good vibes over this."
Josh quickly comforted her with a reassuring pat on the shoulder, promising he would not leave her in the lurch.
Zara, too, held her hand sympathetically, then shot me a look and burst into a dramatic sob.
"My poor, poor son! Even now, he's trying to scrape together some money for Jasmine. He even has to grovel..."
She was cut off mid-sentence by Josh's stern warning. "Mom, that's enough!"
Zara huffed twice but held her tongue.
Paul, seeing her back down, looked annoyed.
"How many times do I have to say it? You can't let her walk all over you. Give a woman an inch, and she'll take a mile!"
He let out a disdainful snort. "Just look at her now, holding back the money that could save Jasmine's life!"
Josh, hearing that, quickly glanced at me, then chastised Paul. "Dad, this is between Chloe and me. You can't just keep trying to fix things the old-fashioned way."
Paul looked taken aback and seemed about to add something else.
Josh quickly cut in, turning to me, and said, "So, we're in agreement for now, Chloe. Are you okay with that?"
Zara turned away, repeating to herself like a mantra. "Every cloud has a silver lining. Every cloud has a silver lining."
Paul shot me a sideways glare, his face a picture of reluctance.
"We can't put off our sister's treatment. It's serious business," I said.
Hearing my words, Josh let out a relieved sigh, and the tension in Paul and Zara's faces eased a bit.
Even Jasmine looked up, her eyes wide with surprise.
With no one objecting, I went on. "Josh's account is down to its last dollar, and I don't have 4,500 dollars on me.
"However, I've got connections at the bank. If you want, I can hook you up with a loan."
Zara was livid; her eyebrows shot up as she stomped and ranted.
"You've bled my son dry! And now you want him to rack up debt instead of coughing it up? Over my dead body!"
Her relentless nagging wore me out. I stormed back to the bedroom and dug out Josh's card.
"If you really think I'm the one who spent it all, here, take the card back."
Under Zara's doubtful gaze, I shoved the card back into Josh's hands with force.
"You know better than anyone if I've touched the money in there. I won't take the fall for this."
Josh froze, then awkwardly looked away, pushing the card back to me. "Honey, I trust you with the money more than anyone."
Then, he turned to Paul and Zara, trying to calm the waters with a peacemaker's tone.
"Mom, Dad, we're family. Why are we splitting hairs over money like we're strangers? I believe in Chloe. She's not the type to blow cash without thinking.
"Let's head home. Chloe and I will figure out the treatment costs."
Josh's voice had a hint of alliance with me.
Zara was beside herself, slapping her thigh and crying out. "How can you be so cold-hearted? Are you just going to ignore Jasmine's sickness? She looks up to you as a brother. She must be cursed to have you.
"If I'd known you'd choose that temptress over your own family, I never would've let her through the door!"
Paul's eyes nearly popped out of his head. "After everything we've done for her, she actually has the gall to turn around and threaten us!
"I'm telling you now: we need to get to the bottom of this and set things straight! Otherwise, she'll walk all over you for the rest of your life!"
Josh gave me a troubled look.
"Dad, Chloe's got to rush to work. Can we talk about this later?"
The old folks glared at me, stone-faced and unmoving. "Where do you work? I'm going to have a word with your supervisor about how they could hire someone as morally bankrupt as you!"
Things had gotten that bad, and Jasmine, who had seemed so empathetic before, then stayed quiet, letting Zara shield her like a mother hen.
I kept my cool, slipped on my shoes, and headed out.
As I was leaving, Josh seemed to have whispered something to Zara, but I was too upset to give it another thought.
Slowly, I started to notice colleagues clearing out from the lunch table as soon as I walked up.
The looks I got from them and from my supervisor were becoming more and more judgmental.
I could not figure out why. I tried reaching out to a teammate I was usually on good terms with, but after a couple of days, I still had not heard back.
The work itself was still the same, but the vibe around the office had definitely changed.
After being snubbed from yet another team outing, I had had enough. I cornered my supervisor and asked, "Has the team taken some issue with me lately?"
My supervisor gave me a look that was hard to read and said, "You're well aware of what you've done. Keeping you on the job is us being more than forgiving."
I was lost and getting worked up. "Just spell it out for me. What did I supposedly do?"
With an icy snort, my supervisor replied, "I tried to spare you the embarrassment, but since you're pushing it... You've been holding back your sister-in-law's medical funds, not paying for her treatment. It's common knowledge around here!"
A teammate chimed in with a sneer, saying, "Using someone's life-saving cash to splurge on a handbag? That's just heartless. Don't you have any siblings yourself?"
I was taken aback at first, then my shock turned to bitter amusement.
'So, they're all in on this little game,' I thought.
I convinced my supervisor to let me join the team event and cleared up the mess.
I thought that would calm the storm, but the next day, I got a 'voluntary' resignation letter.
As I was trying to figure out how I had tarnished the company's image or its business, I started getting vile calls from unknown numbers.
They were spewing insults I could not stomach.
My inbox was flooded with warped messages, my face crudely edited into humiliating and gruesome images, with accompanying captions.
[Stealing your sister-in-law's emergency fund? You're asking for it.]
[Watch your back. Payback has a way of finding you.]
Even my parents were getting cursed.
I shook with rage, clueless about how they got my family's details.
It was not until I logged onto my social media and saw the top post.
[Is a daughter-in-law who's secretly moving assets cheating?]
I clicked on it, and there it was, my face plastered all over the post.